How to find happiness: My Philosophy

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|RO| Cred ca este intrebarea la care oamenii cauta cel mai des raspuns. Este scopul omenirii de cind se afla pe acest pamint. Este sentimentul dupa care toti fug si il doresc. Fericirea este un lucru atit de subiectiv incit este practic imposibil sa faci un ghid exact pentru fiecare om. Si totusi, exista citeva idei de baza care fac diferenta.

|EN| I think is the most asked question in the world. Is the mai goal of people, is the thing that everybody runs after. Happiness is so relative that is imposible to make a guide book vor every person outhere. But, there are some ideas that make the difference.

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|RO| Zilele trecute am privit un video pe youtube despre aceasta tema si m-a inspirat sa scriu un articol. De cind ma stiu, am fugit dupa fericire. Uneori mi s-a parut ca am trait-o, alteori simteam ca nu mai ajung la ea nici intr-o mie de ani. Cu timpul, m-am maturizat, am citit carti referitoare la acest subiect si pot spune ca am inceput sa inteleg fericirea altfel. Astazi pot spune ca sunt cu adevarat FERICITA! Chiar daca viata nu e perfecta si ideala, eu oricum ma simt fericita. Am inceput sa inteleg fericirea altfel, cind am citit cunoscutele carti scrise de OSHO si incet incet am inceput sa implementez ideile lui in viata mea, pentru a vedea daca cu adevarat functioneaza. Iata ce am invatat:

|EN| These days, i watched a video on youtube about this topic that inspired me to write an article about that. As long as I know me, I always searched happiness. There were times that I was shortly happy and didn’t understand how to mantain this feeling. Today I understood. Even if life is not perfect, I feel happy. I started to read many books about philosophy of life and I started to apply it in my life. I sincerely can say it worked. Here are some of my lessons:

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|RO| 1.  Fii recunoscator mereu pentru tot ce ai.

Poate parea o fraza cliseica pe care ati mai auzit-o de o mie de ori, dar recunosc – chiar functioneaza. De multe ori, cind eram intr-o perioada foarte grea, imi aduceam aminte de aceasta idee si incercam sa ma gindesc pentru ce eram recunoscatoare in ziua respectiva. Apreciaza ca esti sanatoasa, ca ai o familie sanatoasa, ca esti libera sa iei deciziile pe care le doresti, ca ai o persoana alaturi care te iubeste etc. Sentimentul recunostintei este un sentiment foarte frumos, de fiecare data cind il simt, parca mi se umple sufletul de bucurie.

|EN| 1. Be grateful for what you have. 

I know, you heard it before, but it really works. When I felt unhappy and had a hard time, I always tried to remember for what I was grateful that day. I was grateful for being healthy, for havin a healthy family, for freedom of thought and freedom to take decisions, for the love of my partner etc. This feeling is an amazing feeling and everytime I feel it, it warms my soul.

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|RO| 2. Indeparteaza-te de persoanele care nu aduc nimic bun vietii tale.

De-a lungul scurtei mele vieti, am intilnit multe persoane profitoare, negative si invidioase. Este greu sa te indepartezi de astfel de persoane, pentru ca te gindesti ca poate ti se pare sau poate esti tu rea si judeci oamenii. Dar, daca simti ca timpul pe care il petreci cu persoanele date te face sa te simti trista, atunci este necesar sa renunti la ele. Este greu, dar dupa te vei simti mult mai libera si mai linistita. Vorbesc din propria experienta. 😉

|EN| 2. Let go of negative people in your life. 

During my short life, I met many negative and envious people. Is hard to distant yourself of these people because you think that maybe you are just being mean or judging people. But if you feel vey sand and emotionally drained after you spent some time with them, is definitely a sign to let go of these people. Trust me, you’ll feel a lot better.  ðŸ˜‰

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|RO| 3. Nu te mai compara cu ceilalti.

Mereu am avut aceasta problema. Mereu m-am comparat cu altcineva. Citeodata acest sentiment ma facea sa ma simt mai bine, alteori mult mai rau. Comparatia nu duce niciodata la nimic bun. Cind te compari cu cineva, distrugi acel ceva special pe care il ai doar tu. Astazi am invatat sa nu mai permit creierului meu sa ma compare cu altcineva, iar daca imi vine acest sentiment, il elimin.

|EN| 3. Stop comparing yourself to others.

It was always my problem: COMPARING TO OTHERS. Sometimes this feeling made me feel good, but almost all of the times it made me feel insecure and sad. When you compare yourself to others, you destroy that special something that you only have. Today I learned not to let my brain make comparisons with others and if I catch myself soing it, I just stop.

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|RO| 4. Nu conteaza ce spune lumea.

Cind eram mai mica, eram foarte obsedata de ce spune lumea, ce crede lumea despre mine sau despre ceea ce aleg sa fac. Si astazi, citeodata, imi mai revine acest gind in minte, dar astazi am invatat sa lupt cu el si sa-l elimin. Si ce conteaza ce spune lumea pina la urma? Poate nu este cel mai pefect exemplu, dar cred ca o stiti toate pe Kim Kardashian. Lumea o vorbeste zilnic, o birfeste, si totusi femeia a devenit milionara pe seama acestei publicitati. Am primit odata un sfat foarte bun: orice ai face, oricum lumea va vorbi si te va birfi, asa ca mai bine fa ceea ce iti place. Si este adevarat!

|EN| 4. Doesn’t matter what people think or say.

When I was younger, I was obsessed about what people thought of me. Today, sometimes, I still obsess about it. But I learned how to fight this thought. Why does it matter what people say? Maybe is not the best example, but look at Kim Kardashian. People are talking about her everyday, gossip about her. However, she became millionaire because of it. Somebody dear to me told me one day: Whatever you will do, people will talk, so DO WHAT YOU LOVE. And is true!

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|RO| 5. Iubeste-te.

Vad atit de multa lume care nu se iubeste, incit e trist. De multe ori cind ma gindesc la viata, imi vine in minte un gind. Ne nastem singuri, murim singuri si toata viata vom fi doar noi singuri in acest corp, de aceea trebuie sa invatam sa ne iubim, sa ne fie interesant sa petrecem timpul cu noi insine, sa vorbim cu noi  insine. Doar asa inveti sa te cunosti cu adevarat si sa-ti devii cel mai bun prieten. Iar in momentul cind te iubesti si te apreciezi, cred ca doar in acel moment ajungi sa cunosti adevarata fericire.

|EN| 5. Love yourself.

Everyday, I see a lot of people who don’t love themselves. When I think about life, one thought comes in my mind. When we born, we are alone. When we die, we are alone. And when we live, we live alone in our body, so why not to learn to love ourselves? We should love to spend time with ourselves, to talk with ourselves. Is the only way to know yourself and to become your bestfriend. The moment you accept and appreciate yourself, is the moment you’ll be genuinely happy!

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|RO|Mii de multumiri scumpului meu Ilie pentru poze si pentru incurajare. I love you, always!

|EN| I want to thank to my amazing fiance’ for these photos and encouragement. i love you, always!

 

 

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